Finding Love as a Transman

It was awesome interviewing @santanaroccoofficial. He is a genuine man, navigating the single world and appreciating his new self. After interviewing him, I came to understand that my insecurities are not alone. Other transmen feel similar insecurities as I and the best way to be as a single transman, is CONFIDENT. I struggle a bit with that word because confident can come across cocky to some. "Confident" I feel, is more ego driven. I guess a question I now have, is there such thing as a "healthy confident?" OR is there no word in our dictionary to define spiritually confident with a balance of having a human body? Is being confident tranquil?